How to deal with children - his - as I'd never had to share space with any before I met him, is one of the most important, it has also made interacting with grandchildren - both by his children and Odi's 3 much more magical and fun.
One of his things is that if someone disses you, let it drop, don't play it forward. You don't know why they've done it - or even whether it is anything to do with you. Look at them with friendship and caring.
He does it all the time - I find it harder.
Ive also learnt to be me - and learnt who I am.
Happy Birthday poliphilo. Thank you xx