I've started checking my friends list everyday to see what, if anything, poliphilo has written about his health. The sad thing is that it's usually the only way of learning if he's okay or not.
It's not that I'm odd or voyeuristic - although I like to know how all my friends are and don't like them to be ill - but poliphilo is my husband, and if I ask him how he is I always get the answer 'okay' - then I read his journal and discover he's not. What a pain men are over their health. We've had articles on the news saying how men are dying because they won't go and see the doctor when they're ill - yet most would have you believe they are dying if they get a cold.